Book: John
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John 13:33

I. "Little children"
        A. Teknia is a word that always indicates loving care and concern.
           A word of tender intimacy.
                1. Jesus is concerned for His disciples.
                2. He has been talking to them about His being glorified
                   but they do not yet have the full comprehension of the
                   fact that He is referring to the cross. They are still
                   hoping for the crowning.
        B. He is now making His meaning a little clearer to them as He
           says "I will only be with you a little while."
                1. Within hours He will be arrested and the trial and
                   crucifixion will be underway.
                2. He knows how they had come to rely on Him.
                3. He knows how their hopes for the immediate setting up
                   of the Kingdom is going to be dashed.
                4. In the tenderest of terms He is going to seek to
                   prepare them for the calamity that they will soon be
                   facing.
        C. "You are going to seek Me, but as I said to the Jews, where
           I am going you cannot come. Now I am saying that to you."
                1. To the Jews He added the words, and you will die in
                   your sins.
                2. Somehow in their colloquialism the phrase where I am
                   going you cannot come signified death, for in chapter
                   8 when He said that to the Jews, they said among
                   themselves, "Is He going to             ?"
                3. In verse 36 when Peter asks Him why he cannot go with
                   Him now he said to Jesus, "I will lay down my life for
                   Your sake."

II. "A new commandment I give to you."
        A. In the book of Exodus God gave the 10 commandments. For the
           most part, they are in the negative.
                1. This is often called the eleventh commandment.
                2. "Love one another." It is very positive.
        B. This is really not new in the sense that it has never been
           given before.
                1. When the lawyer asked Jesus what the greatest
                   commandment was, Jesus responded, "Thou shalt love the
                   Lord your God with all of your heart, soul and mind,
                   and love your neighbor as yourself."
                2. Jesus declared to him that this was a summation of all
                   of the law and prophets.
                3. In all of the selfishness and self-centeredness of
                   life, it is something that they had sort of forgotten
                   and cast aside.
        C. Notice how much they were to love each other, "As I          d
           you."
                1. His love for them was a selfless love. In love He was
                   willing to serve them.
                2. His love for them was a sacrificial love, He was going
                   to lay down His life for them. Before this conversation
                   is over, He will be saying to them, "Greater love has
                   no man than this that a man lay down His life for His
                   friends."
                3. His love for them was an unconditional love. They will
                   all soon be forsaking Him. The one that He has chosen
                   to be will soon be denying Him with cursing. Yet He
                   loved them.
                4. We so often love because of what we are getting out of
                   the relationship.
                5. We rarely are willing to truly sacrifice our own
                   desires.
                6. We so often put conditions upon our love.
                7. How convicting these words of Jesus become.
        D. The Greek word for love in the text is the agape which is
           almost unknown in classical Greek, but is used often in the New
           Testament. 
                1. The word has been defined for us by Paul in I Cor. 13.
                2. It suffers long and is kind, it does not envy or vaunt
                   itself, nor is it puffed up. It does not behave itself
                   in an unseemly way, nor does it seek its own way. It is
                   not provoked, and thinks no evil. It rejoices not in
                   iniquity but rejoices in the truth, it bears all
                   things, believes all things, and hopes all things. It
                   never fails.
                3. Take an honest look at yourself and see far you come
                   from loving like this.
                4. Being brutally honest you will probably confess that
                   you cannot love like that. You are perfectly correct.
                   It is beyond our capacity.
                5. To recognize this is the first step in loving like
                   this.   
                6. To know you can't do it in yourself, if it is to be
                   done it will have to be by the power of an outside
                   force, you are now on the path to discovery of true
                   love.
                7. This is not a love I can generate, emulate, or imitate.
                   It is not in me to love like this.
                8. Why would Jesus command me to do something that is
                   impossible for me to do?
                9. Jesus has given many impossible commands to us, but if
                   I will but will to obey the command, though it is
                   impossible for me, He will give me the capacity to
                   obey.
                10. Jesus said to His disciples, "You will receive power
                    after the Holy Spirit has come upon you and you will
                    be a witness of Me both in Jerusalem, and in Judea and
                    in Samaria, and unto the uttermost parts of the
                    earth."
                        a. It is through the power of the Holy Spirit that
                           this kind of love can become a reality in my
                           life.
                        b. In fact when the Holy Spirit is in control of
                           my life, the fruit of the Spirit is agape.
                        c. This is the true scriptural proof and evidence
                           that I am filled with the Holy Spirit. Tongues
                           without love are meaningless sounds.

III. "By this shall all men know that you are My disciples, that you love
        another."
        A. The greatest sign that we can offer to the world that we are
           the disciples of Jesus Christ is our love for one another.
        B. In the first epistle of John he declared that we know that we
           have passed from death unto life because we love the brethern.
        C. He also said that if a man says that He loves God and hates
           his brother he is a liar.
        D. Again he said, "In this the children of God are manifest, and
           the children of the devil. Whosoever doeth not righteousness
           is not of God, neither he that loveth not his brother."
        E. Love for my brothers in Christ is the proof whereby I know
           that I am a child of God, and proof to the world that I am a
           disciple of Jesus Christ. Any other proof that I might seek
           to offer is invalidated if I have not this love.